Sunday, March 31, 2013

KILLING GIRL CHILDREN IN INDIA.


In the feel-happy planet that is India, where the most powerful politician is an Italy-born woman and where the newspapers are ecstatic over the appointment of an India-born woman as PepsiCo's CEO, there has emerged a news-spoiler that has not been greatly highlighted in the country's media.

This is surprising since the news is revolting and the Indian news channels are constantly in quest of sensational news items to hike up their television ratings. A few days before India's 60th Independence Day celebrations, government officials in Punjab, one of the wealthiest states of India and also the birthplace of Bhangra music, discovered dozens of female fetuses dumped in an unused well in a town called Patran.
A quack, formerly serving in the Indian army, and along with his wife, was running an illegal maternity clinic where, assisted by a team of nurses, he 'helped' expectant parents determine the sex of their fetuses and aborted the female ones if the parents so desired. 


The fetuses were secretly thrown in the well. Allegedly, this killing of would-be girls had been carried out for a number of years. The quack had established the clinic in 1987. It was only earlier this month when one of the nurses, upset over her salary, reported the matter to the authorities. The decomposed remains of placentas and fetuses were discovered in the well and the killings became public knowledge.

Killing female embryos is an unacknowledged practice in Indian society. Everyone knows it is a crime and perhaps morally wrong, too. There are many who do not fall for it, but still it is acceptable. Just be quiet about it, please.


It is also true that many Indians love their daughters as much as their sons, yet the birth of a girl is an undesirable occasion in many families. Girls are seen as a burden on the household, a bundle of shame, and a thankless responsibility. They are perceived as offspring who, unlike the sons, would not carry on the family's name. Instead, a great amount of money would have to be arranged for their wedding dowries, which would benefit the homes of their husband's families.

India is perhaps the only civilization that worships God in woman-form, too. That still doesn’t stop many countrymen from killing their own daughters. Earlier baby daughters were killed by smothering, making them lick poison, or simply by not feeding them. Last year in the month of August, again in Punjab, a newspaper highlighted the report of a girl child being abandoned on a highway by her parents.

India has started shining. Developments in medical technology are more accessible. It is easier to avoid guilt complex by an early detection of the sex of the fetus, thanks to ultrasound technology, and opting for abortion, if it is a girl, in a safe, clean, and clinical process.

It is illegal in India to determine the gender of the fetus of a pregnant woman. Unfortunately the practice is discreet and willing doctors are easy to contact through word-of-mouth publicity.

However, in March 2006, a doctor and his assistant were sentenced to two years in jail for revealing the sex of a female fetus and then consenting to abort it. This was the first time medical professionals were jailed in such a case.

India is a great civilization and a confident country that aspires to become one of the leading nations of the world. It will never achieve this dream until it learns to appreciate the value of a woman as the same of a man.


The good news is that a willing acceptance of daughters is not impossible to arrive at in this conservative country. The newspaper that reported the baby girl was abandoned on the highway AS MENTIONED that a poor couple adopted the baby. The couple happily boasted of already having four biological daughters!

Saturday, March 30, 2013

She


This poem is in reponse to a mother's heartless act of throwing her girl baby in a dustbin, discarding her as a piece of torn rag...

The irony is police found her on the " children's Day'......

We women should hang our heads in shame

pray and wish for the safety of girlchild




Watery cushion cuddling her, she thrives

Her limbs grow at a silent natural pace

Closed are her eyes and tiny her ears
Yet fully aware of life and its vibrations
She doesn’t know the pangs of hunger,
Her tiny pouch is filled without asking for
She kicks gently and coos silently
She is tenderly molded, perfectly modeled
Wet and glistening like a pearl in an oyster,
She is a magic of the creator
Created within a mothers womb



The magic is gone
The day she is born
Seems she is a load too heavy
Even to that woman who bore her for months
Reasons are varied, result is the same
She is left to the earth and winds
By the mother who proceeds nonchalantly to
Bear only sons!

Are such women
Mothers or man – making machines?
Women so heartless to finch at a girl
But who don’t mind bleeding and dying for
The pride called son!

Let such un – womanly women and their uncouth men
Break down, vanish and get annihilated
Heralding and welcoming the birth of a
GIRL – Child
Into a safe and halcyon world
Where girls of any color and race are received with
Joy, triumph and grace!
Hail and happiness to thee oh girl child
Welcome, welcome and welcome again!

Why to Save A Girl Child.?



World of a 
girl child is promising but yet very gloomy, it is full of hope but still in hopeless situation. Daughter is the one that knots the whole family together in one. She is the one that makes our life extra special and brings extra sunshine, laughter and happiness to our daily life. A Woman is one that shapes the civilization.

It is very sad that most of the girls that are born in our country are not found in hospital they got missing and are found in the graveyard.


India is a developing country and in recent years its development has grown very dynamically in every field. India is making its name in world with the boom in its economy, technology development, new innovations in the technology and also the infrastructure has improved also, this is making India proud. But still there are some persons or cultures that are biasing against a girl child in their family.

This is the most dangerous social evil that has deep roots in our country. And the shocking fact is that there are high technologies and innovative techniques are available for killing a girl child like ultrasound, scan tests and amniocentesis etc.

What we need now is to know that every family in the country should be educated on the whole country basis that Girl Child is not a sin it is a gift to you given by the God to you, as she has nothing less than boys. Today girls are competing boys in every field and making their name in every field and pushing back every one.

We all are the proud citizens of India. Now is the time to realize our responsibility towards our country and we should make a halt to this evil crime. What can we do to stop this brutal and undesirable practice of mass killing girls in our country? There is a need now only a single determined spark of light can lit the lamp and can make a cause to stop this all nonsense that is going on in our country make an effort from yourself then every one will be effected. Lets make it possible and show the world that we are the child of the great Mother India. So there are many reason through we should save a girl child and tommarow she will become someone's mother, sister, wife, daughter etc.